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How I practice Somatic (Body-based) parts work

because our emotions, fears, and wounds are as much in our bodies as they are in our minds, So is healing.

Mental health encompasses a whole lot more than our minds. When shame inhabits our body, it takes over, shuts us down, & makes us view ourselves with contempt. We become dysregulated by unhealthy, cyclical conflict and chronically unmet needs that disconnect us from the people we love. We engage with our relationship to money in the same ways we do our other relationships -- we feel that shame, scarcity fear, & lack of control in and through our bodies. Our wellbeing depends on mind-body connection, not separation (as we're told in today's world) because healing is not 'mind over matter' -- it is embodied and in-bodied.

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my approach

somatic IFS Therapy

Internal Family Systems (IFS, 'parts work') is a transformative and compassionate approach to psychotherapy that understands the mind (and body) as naturally made up of multiple "parts," each with its own perspectives, emotions, and roles. IFS helps you heal by using your body to recognize, engage with, and harmonize these parts within a safe and supportive framework. The central concept of body-based IFS is that in addition to these protective parts of us, we also have a core Self, which is calm, curious, and compassionate. This embodied Self can help us heal our parts and restore balance.

 

IFS is at the core of my practice. In session, we'll explore your protector parts, understand their functions, and address the concerns they hold in order to help you become Self-led rather than Parts-led. Whether it's a critical inner voice, a protector part that shields you from pain, or an exiled part carrying burdens of trauma, each part is given a voice and the respect it deserves.

Nervous System Mapping & Regulation

Our bodies are designed to predict threat, reduce harm, and restore us to a state of safety. Much like nature, we work best when we’re in balance — activating our ‘fight or flight’ response when our body perceives a threat (a.k.a stress) and slowing down with our ‘rest & digest’ response when we’re safe so that we can relax & replenish. We become dysregulated when the stress in our lives (from relationships, work, trauma, today’s world) keeps us activated & in a state of threat. This imbalance is so debilitating because it disconnects us -- from ourselves, our relationships, and the world around us. 

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We have to work with our bodies just as much as -- and sometimes even before -- we work with our minds. By integrating neurobiology and somatic psychology, nervous system re-regulation provides a functional framework that will not only help you better navigate stress, conflict, shame, and trauma, but will also give you access to safety, joy, empathy, and intimacy in your daily life.

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Gestalt Therapy

Gestalt therapy is a humanistic and holistic approach to psychotherapy that focuses on your experience in the present moment and our therapeutic relationship as catalysts for change. Developed by Fritz Perls, Laura Perls, and Paul Goodman in the 1940s and 1950s, Gestalt therapy helps us explore your experiences in a holistic manner, so that you can gain insights and develop healthier ways of interacting with yourself and others.

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I incorporate Gestalt therapy techniques to anchor our sessions in the present in order to gain insight as to what you're feeling (not just what you're thinking) and what it means for you to 'be' rather than always 'do.' We can then use these insights and integrate them into action. This framework can be especially beneficial for conflict and couples work.

Benefits of Body-based Parts work

Increased Awareness of body cues & signals
Release of trauma wounds stored in body
improved emotional digestion
increased ability to connect
Healthy Boundaries
Long-Term Well-BeinG & physical health
Ability to self-Regulate 
Stress Reduction
kinder understanding & attitude towards Your body
Improved Relationships
greater Access to clarity, creativity, & curiousity
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 Somatic IFS & Nervous System REgulation FAQs

 

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​therapy@melaniecookeLMHC.com

​Tel: (443) 504-3676

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